The Origins of Child Abuse
Child Abuse is the worst and most horrific thing upon this planet, and quite likely is the worst suffering anyone will ever suffer.And it goes on and on and on despite our efforts.
I am attempting, upon request to solve the reasons why. It is best to go into a battle prepared and we all should be.
It is known that the daily rapists of innocent children have nearly always been abused themselves when they were young and innocent.
The wonder is why it transfers so often from adult to child. Humanity is infected with this like a Virus in this way, and we are not going to get rid of it with the methods we are using.
The answer appears to be the psychology of “Imprinting”. That is the concept proven in animals of absorbing traits of the parent when they are young. This excerpt from the Wikipedia explains:
“Sexual imprinting is the process by which a young animal learns the characteristics of a desirable mate. For example, male zebra finches appear to prefer mates with the appearance of the female bird that rears them, rather than mates of their own type (Immelmann, 1972). The famous psychologist John Money called it the lovemap.”
The rape in childhood is unintentionally implanting the view into the child that the rape of adult on child is what is nurturing and what is necessary. And worse it can become from fetish to core sexuality, as unchangeable as the morons who try “pray the gay away”. And highlighting the need for castration, or the need for lifelong imprisonment in a place they cannot transfer it to another being. Though practise has proven that when a pedophile is castrated, they just take it further, and begin murdering children to gain their mental dominance.
As is shown in Bonoboes, our closest DNA relative, sexuality between adult and young is not unheard of in nature. Yet the difference is we are not monkeys. The Human children are far too sensitive and adult Human Beings are far too powerful and unwise to let loose with bastardised brains.
A pedophile, alone in a room with a child, would see the child as a powerless sex object to dominate and take from.
Yet a healthy Human would see the child as someone to nurture and protect and any thought of sex would go out the window.This nurturing behavior is also absorbed by a child when they are young and becomes apparent in later life. And my guess is, the only abused who do not become abusers themselves are ones who have gained enough empathy to force this switch in thinking from seeing the child as someone to nurture rather than to rape.
This disease eats away at our happiness and progress as a species and is far more important in sorting out than playing some stupid war game against your brothers for strategic benefit.World leaders really don't know their arse from their elbow if they let it go on in their country.
This transmittable disease of inflicting horror is quite peculiar. Simply because we are generally a Humane species.
If you look into the eyes of an abuser, you can see the pure “evil” looking back at you. Which is not evil at all, but a look of complete and utter twisted madness.
When the first act of abuse is committed, the pedophile has basically raped the humanity out of themselves.
They are driven too hard by the absorbed warping of their normal adult sexuality into performing an act they already know the absolute horror of. Performing it upon a fragile young child's scared mind.It is not whatsoever a part of the genetic human may-cup. We are not fundamentally evil, we are just strong and ignorant and dangerous. Yet also intelligent enough to understand the impact of such actions with our Humane, higher minds. To depart so completely from what you know is right, and take a role as a self-serving torturer. The rapist rips their higher brain apart, and would indeed rip their soul apart from them too, as they fall into the insanity of the completely bad and wrong. Rarely to surface again.
The only two options for the safety of children and the eradication of the worst thing in our lives, in our species, the eradication of this disease that rots us at the core. The only crime worst than genocide.
Are 1. putting them all on an island away from any children and without any ability to breed until they die off peacefully.
or 2. to simply kill them.
Yet Humanity is weak and lame and cowardly, and we refuse to do anything to protect our young, to protect new souls coming into this world into the ruination of their lives and then the lives of the children around them.
This must not go into the future with us.
Teach your children to nurture.
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